Murphy Mayhem!

Sweet Dreams!

2012-01-30T16:01:00.000-08:00

After living here for awhile now (like 8 years), we have finally taken a stand against our pink curtains and ugly wall paper. I have scraped and painted the kids rooms a long time ago, so when Tyson said, "Why don't we paint our room this weekend?" I literally jumped at the chance! It felt so good to rip down those nasty, slightly indecent, use-to-be-mauve-but-now-faded-to pink curtains and throw them in the dumpster. We spent the whole weekend painting the room "warm caramel" and then added "melted chocolate" stripes to one wall. I am in love with the outcome. In fact, I may never leave my room again! :)

13?!!

2012-01-22T14:38:00.000-08:00

Here we go. It is hard to believe (or accept) that my first born child is a teenager. Where has all the time gone? I remember when he was born (I was a teenager) and we found out we had to wait until he was 5 to find out more about his ears. It felt like an eternity! Then I blinked---and now my boy is 13! What do you say about someone who means so much to you? Gabriel is appropriately named because he was my saving angel. He continues to bless my life each and every day. He is a shining example to me in so many ways. He makes me a better person. I don't know why God entrusted me with such a special spirit. I think it was because He wants me to know how indebted I will be to Him forever. I thank God daily for this gift. I have no doubt that Gabe is meant for great things. I hope I can live up to the challenge of guiding him on his path through life.Today he got a blow gun for his birthday. His dad, Ridge, and Gabe are upstairs right now practicing---

in the house. Heavenly help us. I wonder if I should go point out to them that they are disobeying the mom or if I should just smile because I can hear them laughing. . . . :)

Happy 6th Ridge!

2012-01-18T08:28:00.000-08:00

Happy Birthday to the baby of our family! I can't believe he is starting on the second hand already. For some reason this birthday is a hard one for his mother. I love everything about this cute little boy that I am so blessed to have. He makes me laugh on a daily basis. It is amazing to me how a little boy can make his mom overflow with feelings of warmth and also feel frustrated to the point of pure anger, all in the same day. I love his logic and the things he comes up with. When I am feeling taxed, I have to remember that one day I will miss this time in his life, just as I miss his infant self. What would I do without my Ridgey-McRidgerton to brighten my days! I love you buddy!

RIP "Lint"

2011-12-27T09:12:00.000-08:00

After 9 adventure filled years, my Sugarglider, Lint, has passed on. Mom bought her for me in Salt Lake City one year for my birthday. The people who sold her to us told us that she would love us and be a friendly pet. They were wrong. She never bonded with me, even though I held her constantly for the first 2 months. I did everything they told me to do: I kept her in a pouch under my shirt all day so she would get use to my smell, I fed her, I talked to her so she would know my voice. . .yeah, it didn't work. Finally I gave up and left her alone. I guess I got sick of being bitten hard enough to draw blood. She was so cute, I couldn't make myself get rid of her, so we kept her. I always felt so sorry for her. She must have been so lonely. Sugargliders usually live in family groups. She would let me pet her back and tail but didn't like to be picked up. She was so soft and was a lot of fun to watch. The kids loved showing her to their friends. She was a fun little pet and we will miss her.

13 YEARS!

2011-12-05T07:00:00.000-08:00

There is so much about marriage that no one can warn you about. There are things you will just never understand until you are in that situation. I was told that marriage isn't always fun. I was told that there would be bad days. And there definately have been a few of those. There have been times I have wanted to walk out the door and never come back. There are habits and traits in a person that can make you completely insane. I have learned that your wedding day is not the only day in your life that you will need to commit to your marriage. You do it over and over again. You consciously decide that leaving is not an option, you just need to find a way to fix what is wrong. Of course there are deal breakers. We both know what those are.
But no one was ever able to warn me about how much you can love another person. No one could tell me how much you can come to depend upon having a person in your life everyday. I now know how much easier trials can be when you have a hand to hold. Just knowing that you aren't alone is an amazing feeling. I feel so blessed that the good days have far out numbered the bad. I love that I have a person who is always 100% on my side. I love being part of a team. Whenever something good happens, he is always the first person I want to tell. Most of all I love that after 13 years, he still makes me laugh. "Love" is not a big enough word to describe the way I feel about my husband on the anniversary of our beginning.

First Day of School

2011-08-26T08:51:00.000-07:00

This year Gabe is going into 7th grade (Junior High), Raygen is going into 4th grade (Mrs. Purser), and Ridge starts Kindergarten (Mrs. Wade). The summer went by way too fast, but the kids are excited to get started on a new year. We missed the bus the first day, but made it on the second day. Gabe so far really likes all his teachers. He has been running with the Cross Country team and is getting in good shape. Raygen loves her teacher (who is also in our ward) and is still the social butterfly she has always been. She is excited to start orchestra this year and is planning on learning the violin. Ridge wasn't even nervous on his first day. I had to make him come back and give me a hug and a kiss before he went into class. It has been so weird to have my baby start school. I am so glad that we opted for the half day schedule. It might give Mom a little more time to adjust to the idea of not having babies at home anymore.

Peas in a Pod

2011-08-26T08:38:00.000-07:00

This summer Gabe has spent a lot of time with his best friend, Clance Belnap. They are so much alike it is scary! Gabe has been really into "Indiana Jones" and has played with his toy whip until it totally wore out. One day Clance came over to play. He told Gabe that he saw a package on the front porch. When Gabe went out to see, there was a wrapped present sitting there. In it was a new whip that Clance bought for him. He was SO excited! The two of them spent the rest of the day "cracking" their whips in the backyard, and "exploring" with their dogs. It has been so great for Gabe to find a friend that he has so much in common with and that he gets along with so well. He loves spending as much time as possible with Clance and I am so glad that he found himself a "kindred spirit".

Happy 4th!

2011-07-04T16:36:00.000-07:00

As Little Miss Idaho Days Queen, Raygen gets to ride on their float in various parades. Today she was in Lewiston's parade. It was pretty hectic getting her there. The float they had lined up got locked in a storage unit and the owner left town. So at the last minute (like 20 minutes before the parade started) we threw together this float with the left over stage decorations. Good thing the girls are so cute and don't need a lot of fancy decorations! Last night we had dinner at Mom and Dad's house where Grandpa Benton and Uncle Braydon decided to teach Raygen how to do a "parade wave". Wow. I should smack them.

Roped Into "Service"

2011-06-25T20:35:00.000-07:00

One of my personality "flaws" (as Tyson sees it) is that I can't seem to be able to tell people "No". But because of that I have had a lot of opportunities to help out and serve. This week I helped a couple of friends make the decorations for Raygen's pageant. We spent all week coming up with ideas, getting donations for materials, cutting wood, painting, modge podging, shopping, eating, talking, and even threw in a lot of laughing. It was so much fun! I love being able to have an idea and make it a reality. The stage looked so cute when we were all finished. I'm glad to have such talented and amazing friends! They are a lot of fun to be around and make any task enjoyable.

Little Miss Idaho Days Queen!

2011-06-25T20:24:00.000-07:00

Today Raygen participated in the Little Miss Idaho Days Pageant. She had to learn a dance and perform it with all the other girls. Then she walked across the stage while the announcer read a description about her. She then gave a a speech and answered three questions. In her speech she said, "Hi! I'm Raygen Murphy. I am 9 years old and I love the color purple! I use it often in the pictures I draw because I love arts and crafts. I have a pet cat named Rosie. She hates everyone but me! She's feisty but I love her! I also have a pet pygmy goat and rabbit. It is my job to take care of them. One of my favorite things to do is to ride horses with my Grandpa Benton. I am my Mom and Dad's only daughter. I'm spoiled not too much, not too little, but just the right amount! My mom tells me I have a big heart to go with my big smile!"
For her questions, she was asked 1. Who is your role model? She said, "My mom and dad because they teach me not to be mean." 2. Why do you like living in Idaho? "Because it has a lot of nature and animals and I love those things!" 3. Why would you make a good princess? "Because I would be a good example to everyone and I would be nice to everyone."
She did an excellent job and we are VERY proud of her. Crown or no crown, Raygen is definitely our little princess!

Ellie

2011-06-07T09:04:00.000-07:00

The newest member of our family is Gabe's puppy, Ellie. He has worked very hard to earn the money for her and also permission from us. He has tried really hard to prove that he is responsible enough for a dog by helping out around the house and taking care of Cash when Tyson is gone. We drove down to Riverton, Utah to pick her up. Gabe was in love the moment he saw her. He started crying and kept saying, "She's perfect!" He has been very good at taking care of her. He feeds her, baths her, cleans up her messes, and plays with her every day. He is working on training her and is learning a lot along the way. It took a lot of debate for Gabe to finally decide on a name for her. I have nicknamed her "Ellington Fitzgerald" because I think it fits her more then just plain old "Ellie". :) She has been a lot of fun, work, and frustration in the charming way only puppies can be.

2011-01-24T07:30:00.000-08:00

Yesterday Gabe became a deacon in the Aaronic Priesthood. Tyson gave Gabe the blessing in Bishop Beckstead's office after church. Grandpa Benton, Uncle Braydon, Mike Cole, Bruce Nate, Vance Broadhead, and Bishop Beckstead stood in the circle. Those watching include myself, Raygen, Ridge, Branson, Grandma Lynda, Bridgett Broadhead and her kids, and Wyatt Cole. There was such a great spirit in the room and Gabe smiled when he was done. Gabe gave everyone a handshake, even his dad, and everyone laughed when the Bishop teased him that he was suppose to hug his dad. Of course his mom gave him a big hug and kiss! (He cussed me later for embarrassing him)
As I sat there, I was reminded of Gabe as a tiny baby in his hospital bed when he received a priesthood blessing. It is amazing to watch the gospel come full circle as Gabe now has the priesthood and can use it to help others. It fills my heart with love and gratitude for our Heavenly Father and His incredible gifts. I am so proud of Gabe for choosing to follow the commandments and for being a good example to his younger siblings.

Happy 12 Gabe!

2011-01-22T06:51:00.001-08:00

I can't believe how fast the time goes. I know I have said that before and will probably say it many more times. It doesn't seem like that long ago that my whole life changed. The day Gabe was born remains one of the best and worst of my life. I am so blessed to have Gabe as a son. He has taught me more than any other influence in my life. I can't believe God trusts me enough to let me be his mother. When I think back to that cold, snowy January day 12 years ago, I remember the doctors telling me they didn't think he could hear and wouldn't be able to talk. They ran all sorts of tests on his tiny body and the whole time, Gabe let them have it! If only I had a crystal ball to let me see him the way he is today, I would have laughed in their face! Gabe not only hears and talks, but he has more to say than most people I know! He is one of my greatest blessings and biggest trials all rolled into a cute, spunky package. I love him so much and feel honored to be his mom!

Happy Birthday Ridge!!

2011-01-18T06:41:00.001-08:00

Five years ago today, we added number 5 to our family. He has been such a wonderful addition! Ridge came into the world with personality spilling out all over the place. He is full of ideas and very full of life. He makes me smile or laugh every single day. I am amazed by his energy and determination. I am trying not to think of this coming fall when he will go to kindergarten. I can't believe it is going by so quickly! I enjoy our days together when it is just Ridge and Mom home. He is such good company and fills the house with joy. He is my little buddy and I am so glad he was born!!! I love you Ridgey McRidgerton! :)

Christmas!!

2011-01-10T08:02:00.000-08:00

We had a great Christmas! It is always so much fun to see how excited the kids get. They still don't dare wake us up. I laid in bed waiting for them to come and get us but instead I heard the TV turn on. (I have been told I'm a little scary when woken up)
It is fun to see the differences in their personalities. Ridge rips open all his presents as fast as he can, Raygen sits and looks at each thing and takes her sweet time, and Gabe likes to get things out of the package and figure it out before moving on. So of course Ridge was all out of presents right away and tried to convince the other two to let him open theirs! Cute little Raygen let him open a couple of hers because she has a kind heart. Ridge got a little tent from Gabe and slept in it the next 4 nights, Raygen got a digital camera, and Gabe was pretty excited about his new Ipod. (He still has the best reactions ever!!) Santa had wrapped his Ipod in about 5 different sized boxes and he had fun opening each box to find another one inside. Tyson got a smoker and has been smoking everything in sight! And I got some new clothes and money towards a camera I want.
Later that day we went to Mom and Dad's and had dinner with some of the family. Lisa and Brett were there with their families. It is always good to see everyone and spend time together. I am so thankful for our family. I feel blessed every day to be related to such amazing people!

Christmas Recital

2011-01-10T07:51:00.001-08:00

The kids survived another piano recital! Raygen played "Rockin' around the Christmas Tree" and Gabe played "I'll Be Home For Christmas". They have been practicing these songs since October so it is good that they will be able to move on to something else now. :) It is fun to watch them gradually progress and start to play songs that I can recognize and sing along with. Now they have a couple weeks off which Gabe is pretty excited about. (Dad too!) I am looking forward to not having to argue with Gabe about his practicing also. But I keep reminding myself that it will all be worth it. And watching them play at the recital is a little glimpse a hope for the future. . .

Dinosaur Museum!

2011-01-10T07:21:00.000-08:00

We had lots of fun at the George Eccles Dinosaur Museum in Ogden this weekend. Braydon and Brittney invited us to go with them to help celebrate Branson's 3rd birthday. The kids loved it! Well my kids did. Branson and Bridger didn't know what to think about the life size robotic dinosaurs. Ridge was a little hesitant to go very close to the dinosaur's "cage" but ended up liking them best of all. We learned all kinds of facts about dinosaurs and fossils and looked at all kinds of minerals. The kids liked playing on the dinosaurs that were outside even though it was pretty cold that day. Afterward, we went to McDonalds and shopping. It was a great day!

Pictures Don't Lie

2010-12-15T10:12:00.000-08:00

Ridge is at a very fun age right now. He says random things that make us all laugh and he is full of energy. Sometimes he is just down right too big for his britches! He is starting to think he is pretty sneeky. The other day my camera wasn't where I left it, so I asked Ridge, "Have you been playing with Mommy's camera?" Of course he looked at me with big innocent eyes and said, "No way! I know I'm not suppose to!" While uploading the pictures, I found about 50 that I don't remember taking. Hhhhmmmm. . . . seems pretty suspicious to me.

Happy 12th Anniversary!

2010-12-05T07:49:00.000-08:00

After 12 years together how can I put into words what Tyson means to me? He is so many things to me. We have been through so much and have grown. We have 3 awesome kids and have built our life with blood, sweat, tears, and lots of laughs. I had no idea what we were getting ourselves into 12 years ago and to be honest, I was scared out of my mind. It definately wasn't what I had planned and all that has happened isn't what I would have chosen for my life, but I wouldn't give back one single second. I feel lucky to have been blessed with a person who loves me as deeply as Tyson does, and who tells me everyday. He is my best friend and still makes me laugh all the time. I feel enormous gratitude to him for all he does for me and the kids. If there is one thing that I have learned throughout the years, life and love aren't always easy. But at the end of the day if you can go to sleep knowing that the person next to you is on your side no matter what, and that the good days far out weigh the bad, then you know it is all worth it.
Happy anniversay Tyson! I can honestly say that I love you more everyday!

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Tie Dye Shirts!

2010-11-15T21:04:00.000-08:00

For one of our Family Home Evening projects, we made tie dyed shirts. The kids thought it was absolutely amazing because they got to make a big mess and didn't get in trouble. They had fun experimenting with the different colors and had bets on who's shirt would be the best when it was all done. (They all like their own)Dad wasn't home that night so we will have to do it again! He doesn't want to use the "sissy colors" like we did, so I bought him a camo-kit. We will see how it works. . .

Halloween!!

2010-11-01T06:49:00.000-07:00

We had a fun Halloween. Earlier in the week, we carved pumpkins. On Saturday Tyson, Gabe, and I went duck hunting while Aunt Brittney took Ridge and Raygen Trick or Treating at the mall in Logan. Then we met up that afternoon and went to our ward party. This year Raygen decided to be "Batgirl". She looked cute as always. Ridge was "Batman" for days before his preschool Halloween party when he suddenly changed his mind and decided to be a Rhinoceros. For the ward party he got into the Halloween box and decided to be "Batman Beyond". He was tired and didn't take part in the "Table Treating" there. Gabe was putting together his Harry Potter costume when he remembered the toy whip he bought and decided to be "Indiana Jones". He did a good job of putting together his own costume from whatever he had in his closet. It was another fun holiday and I was grateful we were able to enjoy it all together.

Happy 9 Raygen!

2010-10-11T07:59:00.000-07:00

I just wanted to take a minute to gush about my sweet girl. She is the BEST daughter a mother could ever ask for! I can't say enough good things about her kind, loving spirit. She is such a positive addition to our household. She is always nice to her brothers, especially Ridge. He loves it when his big sister is home because she always includes him and plays games with him. She is rarely anything but pleasant. She always has a smile on her face and is constantly doing nice things for us. I often find cute notes from her on my pillow. She writes me notes for everything! And I know that she writes her Daddy notes also. They are so fun to find and warm my heart. She is always eager to help and loves to spend time with the family. These past 9 years have definately been a gift from God. They have gone so fast! I am so blessed to have her!

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The Mighty Hunter

2010-10-08T09:59:00.000-07:00

Gabe is loving being able carry a gun around while hunting. I don't know that he loves the idea of killing anything, but he does like being considered "one of the boys" now. We went hunting grouse the other day and had lots of fun. It was a hot day and Tyson and I both limited out pretty quickly. Gabe had a hard time seeing the birds and aiming his gun before they were too far away to shoot, but it was a good experience. Cash came with us and helped a lot with flushing out the birds and retrieving them after we shot. He ran so hard for so long in the heat that he ended up getting heat exhaustion. We had to run him to the vet for treatment. He almost died. Next time, we will have to be way more careful. It was definately a lesson learned.

First Day of School

2010-08-28T08:14:00.000-07:00

The kids survived the first day of another school year. Raygen started 3rd grade with Mrs. Streadbeck and Gabe started his first day of Junior High 6th grade on August 23, 2010. This year they only go 4 days a week and each day is a little longer. So far they love it! Even Gabe has been enjoying school. He caught on to opening his locker very quickly and loves changing classes. He has also started band and really likes learning the percussion instruments. He started school with the long hair that he loved, but we made him get a hair cut before picture day. He was mad at us for a while but looks so much better! We are starting to get settled into a routine and hope to have a great year full of good memories.

Summer Fun!!!

2010-08-24T22:00:00.000-07:00

We just can't even tell you how much fun we had with cousins this summer! Having Tyler, Brooklynn, and Brandon here for 3 weeks was AWESOME! We did tons of funs things and spent lots of time together. They all got along so well and became best of friends in no time. All 3 of my kids cried their eyes out when it was time for them to fly back to Texas. We are already counting down the days until we see them again!

Ice Blocking!

2010-08-12T10:22:00.000-07:00

We are having so much fun with the cousins here! I will post more about all the fun stuff we've been doing later, but I had to share this video of them learning to Ice Block. They didn't really think it was going to work and were amazed at how fast they could get going. We only had one "incident" which was totally my fault---I forgot to tell them not to let the blocks of ice hit them on the way down. Oops! But thankfully it wasn't too bad and we were able to enjoy the rest of the day. We even went to Charlie's for ice cream when we were done! YUM!

Enforcing the law

2010-07-09T22:02:00.000-07:00

The other day Tyson and I were in Sportsman's Warehouse when we came across some dutch oven stirring spoons. They just happened to be small, medium, and large. A light bulb went off in my head. It must have been my up-bringing coming out. There are many stories of the dreaded "death stick" my mother wielded. So I decided to make some paddles for the kids. I named them, put their names on the appropriate size, and hung them on the wall next to the "Thou shalt not whine." sign. Now when I feel myself losing control of a situation, all I have to do is say, "Ok--go get your stick!"
I think it is hilarious---the kids on the hand, they aren't amused.

4-H

2010-06-12T08:37:00.001-07:00

Raygen spent 2 days and 6 hours in a 4-H cooking class this week. She learned the basics of cooking and made a few treats. She came home excited and eager to start practicing all that she learned!

Sand~Box!

2010-06-12T08:21:00.000-07:00

Well it took me a couple weeks and a whole lot of trips with the wheelbarrow but we have a sand box! Ridge kept digging holes in the garden so I decided to make him a sandbox. I started by digging out the flowers and dirt that were in the corner of my yard. Then I put boards around the edge, put a weed barrier down and dumped in the sand! Pretty easy, it just took time because I had to do it in between rain storms. The only problem is that I think we need more sand because I dug a little too deep! :)

Boys Will Be Boys. . .

2010-05-15T21:33:00.000-07:00

Or I guess I could say, "Ridge will be Ridge." He loves to play in anything dirty. He loves worms and mud and all things that are boy. I love to take pictures of him when he doesn't know I am watching him. He is at such a fun age right now. He says the funniest things everyday, and I find myself just watching him all the time. I swear I can SEE him growing and learning right before my eyes. It gives me so much joy! It seems like because he will probably be my last kid, I find myself missing him before he has even grown up.

We the People. . .

2010-03-19T16:51:00.000-07:00

As part of the 5th grade, Gabe got to participate in the "We the People" night. His group had to read a paper they had written about the government and then answer questions from the judges about the subject they had chosen. Gabe's group talked about the Bill of Rights and Freedom of expression. Gabe answered the first question from the judges and then another one about whether school uniforms go against our freedom of expression. He did a very good job. He said he was really nervous, but we couldn't tell. Afterward he got a certificate and we took him to eat at Big J's. We were very proud of him.

Arrow of Light!

2010-02-27T07:36:00.000-08:00

Gabe received his Arrow of Light award last night. It is the highest award you can earn in Cub Scouting and the only one you get to take with you to Boy Scouts. We are really proud of him. He has worked really hard and spent a lot of time working on this award. He finished his Weblo and did some extra achievements to get it. They had a special ceremony for him last night where some "Indians" presented the arrow to Gabe. He thought that was pretty neat!
We are extremely grateful to Preston 3rd Ward's scouting leaders. Especially Grandpa Benton, Grandma Lynda, and Aunt Nancy. Without their help, Gabe would not have been able to earn this award. They have gone above and beyond their callings to help Gabe. He had so much fun and was able to participate with other boys since our own ward doesn't have any other scouts his age. Thanks again to our wonderful family and good friends!

Happy Valentines Day 2010!

2010-02-14T17:11:00.000-08:00

This year to celebrate Valentines Day we got the kids each a stuffed animal and some candy. But to make it more interesting we decided to put them inside a big balloon. They thought that was pretty neat! However, it only took them about 5 minutes to get over it and pop them.

Poor Rosalie!

2010-02-14T16:46:00.000-08:00

Raygen loves her poor cat---almost to death. I get such a kick out of Ray hauling that grouchy cat around like a baby. She hugs it and kisses it and pets it and the whole time Rosie growls and glares at her. I've started letting her sleep with it at night since it has been cold. She snuggles right up with it and falls asleep. When I come in to check on her, I can usually hear Rosie's muffled growl coming from somewhere underneath Raygen and her covers. I often think about rescuing the poor thing but then again, it serves the mean old thing right!

GOOB!!

2010-01-22T07:20:00.000-08:00

What can I say about a boy like Gaber?
He started it all, he rescued me from myself, and he never fails to bring a smile to my face. I can't believe it has already been 11 years of "Gabe Adventures". He has been a great blessing from day one. I've probably said it a thousand times, "I don't know what I did to deserve a boy like Gabe, but I hope I live up to the challenge!" Of course I mean that only in a positive way because even on the most cloudy day, Gabe carries sunshine in his pocket. Each day I thank Heavenly Father for sending me such amazing gifts and I pray for the strength and courage it will take to be worthy of them. I hope I am always able to show Gabe his great worth and that he never doubts how much I love him.

RIDGE RULES!!!

2010-01-18T07:15:00.000-08:00

Happy Birthday to my youngest boy! He has been counting down the days for at least 2 weeks now. Asking me every day, "Mom, am I 4?" Well this morning I finally said, "Yes." The time has flown by. Each day I am so thankful that he came to join our family. I never regret begging Tyson for one more child. :) Since the day he was born he has been a cuddly, smiling, happy, funny addition to our home. He brings us so much joy!! So how appropriate to have a whole day to celebrate his birth!!
I love you Gidget!! Thanks for being my son!

Christmas Day!!

2009-12-26T21:04:00.000-08:00

We were very blessed this year. Not only did we get to open lots of amazing presents, we got to spend time together and with family. Each day I am amazed by some blessing or another. I don't know what I did to deserve such great children and a loving husband. More then all the packages of stuff, I am so happy we have each other to help us through this life. Each day is a gift to use as we will. I don't always use them wisely but I definately cherish each one I am given.
And I am thankful for the yearly reminder that our Savior came into the world and atoned for our sins so that through him, all things are possible. Hope is one of the greatest of all gifts. Christmas is a time for healing broken hearts and as we approach a new year, I want to go into it trying to fear God a little less and trust in Him a little more.

First Piano Recital!

2009-12-13T19:26:00.001-08:00

Gabe and Raygen had their first piano recital on December 11th. They did such a good job. Raygen played "Jolly Old Saint Nicholas" and Gabe played "We Wish You a Merry Christmas". They looked so cute too! Gabe was very last and had to play his song 3 times. During the last time through, all the kids stood up and sang with him. He was very nervous about that, but did great! They really like their teacher, JoRene. She rewards them generously each week with nickels (for practicing) and quarters (for memorizing). And each month she picks a "Student of the Month". They have been it twice. They get a bag with a soda, bag of popcorn, and certificate for a free movie from the local video store. It has been great to watch them grow and learn! Grandpa Benton, Uncle Braydon, Aunt Brittney, Branson, Bridger, Uncle Brett, and Aunt Kathi all came to watch too! We are so lucky to have such a supportive family!

Christmas!!

2009-12-13T18:38:00.000-08:00

We've started out the Christmas season with a lot of fun. While it has been hard to get in the mood this year, spending time together as a family helps. The day after Thanksgiving we participated in the annual Preston's Kids Day Parade. We had cousins and preschoolers dress up like Rudolph and pull Mrs. Smith in her sleigh. It was cute and tons of fun! Even though our red noses kept blowing down the street,we won "Most Creative" and each got a certificate for a free pizza. Then we headed to Salt Lake for the Festival of Trees. There were hundreds of cool decorated trees, a gingerbread village, activities for the kids, and Ridge even sat on Santa's lap!
This year we took the 4 wheeler up in the mountains and cut down our own tree. The kids rode behind us in a big sled and had fun shaking the snow off the trees to see if they were good. They are also old enough to decorate it now. All I had to do was put the lights on and they took care of the rest. We are trying to concentrate on positive thoughts this season and just thank our Father in Heaven for all of the blessings He sends us each day.

Baptism Bound!

2009-10-15T16:11:00.000-07:00

Raygen is so excited to be baptized this month! She is such a cutie. I couldn't resist getting her a little white dress to be baptized in. And nothing is more beautiful this time of year then the fall leaves. So we struck out for an afternoon of amateur photography. It was tons of fun to spend time with my gorgeous, easy going daughter. She just smiled and did what I asked her too. I am glad to have gotten some good pictures to remember her this age. I may be biased, but she is stinkin' cute!!

Raygen turns 8!

2009-10-14T06:50:00.000-07:00

Hard as it is for me to believe, Raygen is 8 years old. She counted down her birthday for days and was up before dawn waiting for us to wake up. The second I walked out of my room, she stepped in front of me and smiled. Half asleep I uttered, "Happy Birthday Ray" and she beamed. It was so cute to see her that excited. We went to church and she was thrilled that the primary gave her a pencil. (which she was throwing around and lost on top of some very tall cabinets) Then we headed over to Grandpa Benton's and Grandma Lynda's for dinner, cake, and icecream. I asked Raygen what she wanted for her birthday dinner and she told me frozen pizza. So that is what we had! Lindsey and the kids came up to help us celebrate. (We even got to see Grandma Lynda for about 30 minutes!) I bought her a fairy cake from Stokes and she got to open all her presents. She wasn't feeling very well by then and soon after her last present was opened, she started throwing up. It lasted all night. Gabe too. Not a good way to end a special birthday.
So we loaded up our puking kids and went home to watch a movie. Even with the sickness, any day to celebrate the birth of my little girl is a GREAT day! I am so glad she is a part of our family. I feel blessed each and every day that I have her!

Taking After Grandpa Benton

2009-10-04T19:38:00.000-07:00

Raygen has a dry erase board in her room. The other night I noticed some writing on it. I asked her about it and she told me that she is counting down the days until her birthday. Every morning she changes the number so she will know when her birthday gets here. She is very excited for her birthday party and has made some REALLY big plans that I will have to help her edit a little. She is also very excited to turn 8 so she can be baptized. I can't believe how fast she is growing. It makes me so sad to watch the years race by. She is such a special girl and I feel so blessed to be able to raise her. I couldn't ask for a better daughter!

First Trip to the Dentist

2009-10-01T19:15:00.000-07:00

So the kids and I all went to the dentist the other day. Tyson refuses to go until after hunting season. I don't know why. (I've decided just to call the things I don't understand about him "Tyson Logic".) Ridge even went for the first time. I know that he is 3 and should probably have already been to the dentist quite a few times, but his mother is a slacker. He did a really good job and was very brave. He was so excited that he got 2 toothbrushes and asked if he could brush his teeth with both of them at the same time.

We all got our teeth cleaned. Gabe is the only one who didn't have a cavity. As you can imagine, he immediately started rubbing it in. "I can't believe I'm the only one in the WHOLE family to never have a cavity! That's got to be like a record or something!" (and on and on and on) Finally I'd had enough and told him that by the time we are done with braces and jaw surgery, we could probably have paid to fix a cavity in every single one of his teeth twice. So to be quiet already!

First Day of School!

2009-09-30T09:37:00.000-07:00

The first day of school went off without a hitch. The kids were excited to start a new year. Even Gabe said he was glad to be back to school. They both like their teachers a lot and are looking forward to lots of good times. Gabe started 5th grade with Mrs. Owens and Raygen started 2nd with Mrs. Kunz. It took a few days to get use to waking up early and homework isn't always fun, but it is good to get back to a routine.

Periodic Springs!

2009-09-30T08:29:00.000-07:00

Before school started, we decided to take a hike up to Intermittent Springs. It is always so much fun to go back and enjoy the beauty of the Star Valley Mountains. Dad was in Afton getting his 4 wheeler fixed, so we asked him to meet us there for the hike. When we got to the parking lot, his truck was already there. We figured he had headed up without us, so we hiked up the trail ourselves. When we were about there, the kids were amazed to see our name scratched in the dirt with an arrow. "It's this way!" Gabe yelled like he had just stumbled onto a valuable clue. Around the willows sat Grandpa Benton. It was a good time! I just love that area and really enjoyed being there and sharing it with my cute little family. The spring was stopping and starting but it didn't stay stopped for very long. And the stone flies were still everywhere, which the kids thought were gross.
On the way back to the truck, we ran into my good friend Candice and her husband, KC! They had stopped in Star Valley for a few days on their way from Canada back to Texas. Talk about a random reunion! It was good to get to visit with them for a minute. And then on the way home, we ate at the Red Baron. All I can say is YUM!

Montana Madness!!

2009-08-17T19:54:00.001-07:00

We had lots of fun visiting family in Montana this month! We went out to eat, did some shopping, went to Carousel Icecream, had a BBQ at Grandma Donna's, watched movies, took a river boat tour, went swimming, and Raygen even hosted a tea party for us!! It was a ton of fun and we are so glad Grandpa and Grandma Murphy let us come play for a couple days!

Summer-Time is Fun-Time!!

2009-07-26T16:40:00.000-07:00

We have been having so much fun this summer! We've been busy fishing, swimming, taking rides on Grandpa's boat, having cookouts, playing with cousins, visiting Willow park, sleep overs, movies, etc. And the fun isn't over yet!! This week is the Preston Rodeo and parade. So we are looking forward to even more good times. I don't know how many times this year I have heard the phrase, "I LOVE SUMMER!!!"

The Next American Idol!

2009-06-15T14:46:00.000-07:00

Our DVD player stopped working about 20 minutes into the trip. . . .it was traumatic to say the least. But "luckily" Ridge found a new way to entertain himself. He sang the same song over and over and over and over. I thought it was very cute--Daddy, on the other hand, only thought it was cute for the first 15 minutes.

Bear World and Yellowstone!

2009-06-14T19:38:00.000-07:00

We had tons of fun this week. First we stopped at Bear World to make sure the kids got to see some bears. They had fun feeding them doughnuts and bread. There was baby elk and baby mountain goats. The kids loved riding the rides there and petting the animals in the petting zoo. Except for the pot-bellied pig. They were terrified of him because every time you touched him, he would grunt really loud and act like he was very mad.
Then we stayed two nights in West Yellowstone. We toured the park and got to see lots of animals. We saw elk, deer, bison, big horned sheep, a black bear and other stuff. The kids had a paper with animals on it and they kept checking them off. Every time we would see something Ridge would yell, "I need the marker!" We cooked our meals in the park and had tons of fun. Gabe loved the geysers, Raygen loved the flowers, and Ridge loved the "bubbling mud" the best. When we visited a spring called the Dragon's Mouth, Ridge was convinced there was a real dragon in there that was going to wake up and eat us all if we weren't quiet.
It is so fun to experience the world all over again thru the eyes of my children. They make everything so much more fun and humorous.

Mother's Day Card

2009-05-26T20:10:00.000-07:00

Gabe made me a card for Mother's Day but he didn't dare give it to me until today. He gets really embarassed about all the "mushy stuff". But it was so incredibly cute, that I had to share it with everyone. And since Gabe never checks the blog, I think it will be alright. For those of you who can't read his hand writing, it says, "Dear Mom, Thank you for everything. You are very special. Your heart is as pure as a fresh water spring. Your eyes shine like twinkling stars in the midnight sky. Your voice is so pretty you call birds with it. Your so funny I love your jokes. Love, Gabe age: 10 4th grade"
I have to admit that I laughed my head off when I read it. I think we have a budding poet in our midst!!

My Little Ray

2009-05-09T14:24:00.000-07:00

We had a fun day today at the Fun Park in Logan. Gabe brought his friend, Colton, and we had Auriana with us. But my favorite part was doing the portrait both with cute little Raygen.

Just a Reminder. . .

2009-05-07T20:21:00.000-07:00

The past few weeks my counter tops have been full of cups of dandelions and various other "flowers" that Ridge has so proudly brought me. Today after mowing the lawn I guess dandelions were a little scarce so he started bringing me the flowers that are planted on purpose. Though I am ashamed to admit it, I cussed him for picking mom's flowers and told him to leave them in the flower beds. His cute little face dropped and his eyes filled up with tears as he said, "I'm sorry mom, I just love you." As I watched his tiny body walk away the thought entered my mind that in a year or two, the little cups of flowers will no longer sit on an already cluttered cabinet. I know that all too soon I will miss that small face looking up at me full of pride as he hands me a handful of lovingly selected weeds, hugs me and says, "These are for you, Mom!" So I have decided to enjoy each and every flower brought to me, regardless of where it came from. Because while my flowers will grow back year after year, my cute little boy will only grow up.

Hail Storm!

2009-05-06T09:13:00.000-07:00

We have had a very wet spring so far. The other day we had a pretty good hail storm going on. Gabe and Raygen wanted to go out and play in it. I told them that it hurts to play in a hail storm. They didn't believe me, so I decided to let them figure it out for themselves. They had a lot of fun running around screaming like feral children.

Dance!

2009-05-04T14:41:00.000-07:00

Well Raygen finished another year of dance. She performed in three dances and the finale. It was a lot of fun to watch her. She is really learning the dance moves and likes to be on stage. We gave her a bouqet of flowers and so did Aubree and Brianne! She got a cute dancer jewelry box from her teachers. We also got to see Ashlee perform in a lot of dances including her solo. She did an excellent job! This was her last year of dance so we were even more glad we got to see her! After it was over we took some pictures of them. Raygen took a picture with her friend, Abby, who looks a whole lot like Brooklynn! It was a fun recital and we are so glad Tyson is working in Montpelier right now so he was able to come too.

Daniel Boone!

2009-04-28T06:39:00.000-07:00

For school Gabe had to do a biography paper on someone. He chose Daniel Boone. Last night he reminded me that he needed a costume for today. He had told me a while ago, but I forgot. So in between Raygen's dance practices, I searched all over Logan trying to find something that would work and ,more importantly, would make Gabe happy. I went to the DI and found a levi shirt that would fit him and a leather belt with fringe. Then I came home and spent a couple of hours cutting up some of Tyson's carhart pants to make fringe (we didn't have any leather). He put on a coon skin cap and was happy as could be this morning when he left. Guess I dodged that bullet!

Some Girls Get Flowers!

2009-04-22T07:40:00.000-07:00

Over the past 10 years I have had to learn how to read Tyson a little bit. He tries really hard to do all the regular romantic things, but struggles in that area sometimes. However, the times I know he loves me the most are when he shows it HIS way. I notice when he buys me a "diamond" for Christmas, even though it is a bow. I notice when he orders me custom arrow wraps that he put a lot of thought into. (They say "Deney Weenys" and have the weinerschnitzel hot dog on them.) I notice how he looks at numerous stores trying to find me pink fletching. (they only had red) And I definately notice how he spends hours meticulously preparing a dozen arrows for me so they will be ready "whenever I feel like shooting my bow". I have learned that he does this not to force me to bowhunt, but because it is his hope that I will spend more time with him. He does it because he wants to share his favorite thing in the whole world with me. He does it because he loves me. So while it may seem strange to some, seeing the "vase" of a dozen finished arrows sitting on the cabinet this morning was a truly beautiful sight to me.

Easter!!

2009-04-16T19:06:00.000-07:00

We had so much fun this Easter. It is great when all the kids are old enough to understand and participate in all the fun activities. We were lucky enough to have Grandpa Al and Grandma Tammy staying with us that weekend. We kept up with tradition and went to Baby Animal Days at the American West Heritage Center in Wellsville. We were a little worried about rain but it turned out to be a perfect day. The kids loved petting all the baby animals like rabbits, chickens, ducks, goats, cows, pigs, turtles, snakes, and even male honey bees and hissing cockroaches. Every year it gets bigger and better. Gabe learned how to throw an ax like a true mountain man and tried to climb a greased pole to get the money at the top. Raygen got to use her crafting skills on a pinwheel and Ridge loved jumping in "that big balloon thingy".
Easter morning was just as much fun. The kids found a note from the Easter bunny telling them to find their baskets and then go outside for the rest of their presents. They found their baskets in record time and then squealed with delight when they found baby bunnies waiting for them outside. After church we hid 100 plastic eggs and had our own easter egg hunt in the back yard. It was definately a great Easter holiday!!

Pay it Forward

2009-03-18T10:16:00.000-07:00

Pay it Forward

Your mission, if you choose to accept...a friend is doing this pay it forward thing. This is how it works.....

The first 3 people to leave a comment on this will receive a hand made gift from me during this year - When and what will be a surprise. There's a small catch...You knew there would be didn't you?
Post this on your blog then come back and leave a comment, telling me you're in. Fun, huh? Remember, only the first 3 comments receive the gift.This should be LOTS of fun!

Trappin' with Dad

2009-03-18T07:33:00.001-07:00

Gabe has become quite the little trapper. He loves going with his Dad and helping any way he can. He has his own little waders and loves to help carry the traps or scent stuff. He is learning a lot and having a lot of fun. He even caught a mink in his trap this year. He was so excited! He can't wait to get it tanned so he can hang it in his room. We are glad that he is getting interested in a new hobby. Now if only his hobby didn't fill the freezer with dead carcasses. . .

Vegas Baby!

2009-03-17T17:12:00.000-07:00

Tyson had meetings in Las Vegas this past week, so I went with him. It was so much fun! I got to sleep in and scrapbook while he was at class. Then we would go out at night and see the town. We even went on a gondola ride which was super romantic. Our gondelier was named, Alyssa, and she had the most beautiful voice! One night we went to see The Phantom of the Opera. We bought cheaper tickets in the back but we got there early and were able to move up to the 4th row! It was so amazing. The special effects and costumes were unbelievable and the actors could SING! It was definately the highlight of the trip for me. We also went to Bass Pro shops and ate at the Harley Davidson Cafe. I think you could spend a year in Vegas and still not see everything there is to see. Tyson even won $40 on the slot machines but promptly put it all back in. It was so nice to be able to spend time together. I am very grateful to my parents for taking care of the kids for us. It was a nice break but I am glad to be home again.

Another Tooth Gone

2009-03-17T16:06:00.000-07:00

Raygen is pleased to announce that she has lost tooth number 2. She pulled it out all by herself after days and days of wiggling. The Tooth Fairy must have been too busy last night to stop by . . . . .so hopefully she will be able to do it tonight. We might have to fire that forgetful fairy!

Snowmobiling with Dad

2009-02-21T11:14:00.000-08:00

Tyson and I had a great day snowmobiling with my dad! He is kind enough to take us with him even though he tells us he is just glad to have someone to go with. We went up Cub River. I miss the mountains of Star Valley but I am learning to really enjoy the beauty that surrounds us here. There was a lot of new snow which is always a ton of fun! Tyson only got stuck 3 times and I got stuck once. I am so glad to have such an awesome dad. He makes sure to go places I can follow and doesn't leave me in the dust. The sun was shining and there was just enough wind to erase some of the tracks left by the machines in front of us. I have always loved snowmobiling. There is nothing quite like it. To be able to enjoy nature while it sleeps is a truly amazing experience. I am so thankful to live in this day and age where we have the technology to make life a lot more enjoyable!

Hardware Ranch

2009-02-07T11:01:00.000-08:00

Other years we have driven all the way up to Jackson Hole, WY to ride the sleigh out on the elk feed ground. It is a lot of fun but this year we decided to go see what the Hardware Ranch was like instead. The drive up Black Canyon was beautiful! I can't believe we haven't been up there before. The Visitor center was small but the people were all really nice. We were there on a day that wasn't very busy so we were able to get on a sleigh right away. Mr. Jensen was our driver and he looked very familiar to us but we never could place him. He was a nice man. A group of people from South Korea were on the sled with us. They were so funny. They were very excited to be there and their enthusiasm was refreshing. They were laughing at how much the elk poop and some even splashed on one of them which caused a huge uproar. Gabe brought his binoculars but the elk were so close he didn't need to use them. After the ride was over a Korean man was trying to get up the nerve to kiss Norman (one of the horses that pulled the sleigh). He didn't dare until Raygen just marched right up and gave him a big old kiss without even hesitating. It was funny to see his expression! It is always fun to get out of the house and enjoy nature. We had a good day and wouldn't hesitate to go back.

Walking the Hall!

2009-02-07T10:48:00.000-08:00

Raygen was able to reach her goal of 100 AR points in reading so she was rewarded with the opportunity to walk the hall with the school mascot, Pella the Panther. All the other kids came out of their classrooms and cheered as she went by. It is a fun tradition that her elementary does. She was sure tickled and she gave her friends a high five as she went by. It was really cute. She also received a coupon for a free kids meal at Arctic Circle, a book mark, and a certificate. We are proud of her for setting a goal and accomplishing it all by herself. She loves to read and is reading at a high 3 grade level. She loves school and excited when she gets good grades. (She wishes they gave A's in 1st grade but they don't yet) I hope this keeps up throughout the years!

Birthday Business!

2009-01-28T08:03:00.000-08:00

We celebrated Ridge's and Gabe's birthdays this month. Dad's schedule changed and so he was able to be home on their birthdays for the first time in years. We went bowling at the infamous Pop N' Pins lanes and then opened presents and had cupcakes. It was a good time even though Tyson is extrememly competitive and took great pride in beating the kids and me. (Good thing we had bumper lanes!) Gabe was thrilled to death with the night vision goggles Raygen and Ridge gave him. And Ridge loves the bath toys and bath crayons he got. So it was a very good day. On the 24th we had a big combined birthday party for Ridge, Gabe, Kadrian, and Brianne. It was tons of fun and always good to be able to spend time with family!
Another thing that happened this month is---Bracken and Lindsey had their baby! We got to babysit Auriana for a few days while they were in the hospital. They named their cute little boy Benton Max Smith after their fathers. He looks just like Bracken! Hopefully Auri will get use to sharing her parents. We really enjoyed having her. She is such a cutie!

My Brother, My Friend . . .

2009-01-08T18:30:00.000-08:00

My big brother,Brian Gamble Smith, passed away December 24, 2008. He was not only my brother but one of my best friends. I love him very much and will miss him deeply. It is hard to think that I won't hear his voice or see his big smile anymore in this life. He taught me so much that I will continue to use throughout my life. He also gave me an amazing sister-in-law, four wonderful nephews, and one beautiful niece that I will cherish forever! I hope he finds the peace he so desperately needed and I know the Savior will take care of him until we meet again. Until that day--I love you, Brian, my brother, my friend, and my hero!

Crazy Cousins!

2009-01-06T22:21:00.000-08:00

Raygen and Brooklynn got to spend a lot of time together this week. They had SO much fun! They giggled their heads off. They say they are each other's sister since they don't have a "real" one. It was so cute. Here is a song they made up.

First Big Snow!

2008-12-17T22:10:00.000-08:00

The kids love the snow! We had a lot of fun riding on the sled behind the 4 wheeler. Cash came out and chased us around the field and only got run over once. We played and played and were completely frozen by the time we came in. But it was nothing a nice cup of hot chocolate couldn't fix. Enough snow fell that I even got to use my snowblower! I love that thing!! It sounds like we better get use to the white stuff because more is on it's way. Just in time for Christmas--Hooray!

Move Over Martha!

2008-12-15T23:40:00.001-08:00

How I let myself get roped into things, I'll never know. I really need to practice that elusive word. . . .what is it again? Oh yeah, "NO!" The "Young Women" are in charge of the center pieces for the ward Christmas party tomorrow night, so guess who made them all. Yup--I'm a sucker. Good thing I like crafting. It is actually a lot of fun---when the kids aren't around, especially my little Tazmanian devil, Ridge. But they got done and I think they turned out cute. Besides, now I have something to give the neighbors for Christmas. Blessings in disguise, right?

Decorating the Christmas Tree!

2008-12-12T07:20:00.000-08:00

Ok so we still have a couple of weeks before Christmas right? We finally got our tree up and decorated. I wanted to keep the tradition of going up in the hills and cutting our own tree, but got tired of waiting so we just bought one this year. The kids always have a lot of fun putting the decorations on. I put on the lights and then turned them lose and I think they did a really good job! And as Raygen said, "All that is left is putting the presents under it!"

Happy Anniversary to My Dear Husband!!

2008-12-05T10:02:00.000-08:00

Thanks for tens years of memories! I love you more each day!

Kid's Day Christmas Parade!

2008-12-02T11:54:00.001-08:00

Our preschool decided to have the kids join us in the Kid's Day Parade again this year. We chose a Frosty the Snowman theme. We made each kid who came a costume they got to keep. We decorated a float and put a huge 7 foot Frosty on it. It took me a few hours to make him and he was a little bit out of proportion but it worked. We even won first prize and got a personal DVD player with a screen that folds up! (We were the only float in the parade, but hey who's counting?) It was a lot of fun and I think the kids really enjoyed it. Ridge is the shortest snowman in the front with a yellow scarf. He looked so dang cute!

Gabe and Raygen were also in the parade but me being the scattered-brained idiot that I am, I forgot to take a picture of them. The next day I made them put their costumes back on for a picture but we couldn't find Gabe's Santa hat anywhere. Oh well--I'm learning to accept imperfection. Their goats looked so cute with their antlers on. Gabe and Raygen were so proud. Tyson had to walk with Raygen and keep ahold of Snowflake (that is what Raygen named her goat) because she was on a dead run and probably would have dragged Raygen along on her face! And Thunder absolutely refused to walk, so Gabe had to carry him. It was great! They were announced as "Santa, Elf, and reindeer in training". And they won second place which was a CD player. Gabe said since they both have one they are giving it to Ridge. It was a fun day!

Thanksgiving

2008-11-30T19:21:00.000-08:00

Well we had a rockin' time at Grandma Lynda's house on Thanksgiving. We ate and talked and watched TV and ate some more and watched the men sleep and listened to the kids play and did I mention we ate? It was a lot of fun to see Lisa and Aubree and Brianne. After they left, Tyson and the kids and I tried to get Mom and Dad to go to the movie with us but they didn't want to. So we went alone. We went to see "Bolt". It was so cute! We all laughed our heads off! It is very worth seeing. We also made a "Thankful tree". All of us wrote things we are thankful for on the leaves and then glued it together. It was fun to see what the kids wrote. Ridge apparently is thankful for ants and dinosaurs, Gabe and Raygen are thankful for their goats (we got a second one by the way), Tyson is thankful for his freedom (hint, hint, wink, wink), and I am thankful for my cute little family.
It was a very good Thankgiving Day and I just want to take this opportunity to tell my family how thankful I am for each one of them. I am so lucky to be born into one of the best families in the entire world and marry into the other one. Thank you all so much for all you do for me! I love you tons!!

And I am also extremely thankful for my friends. I know that my family has to love me but you guys don't. So thanks for putting up with me. I don't know what I would do without you!

Horse Ride With Dad

2008-11-19T14:59:00.000-08:00

Today Dad and I went on a small horse ride in Riverdale, above Olivia's house. It was a beautiful day so we decided to take advantage of it, even if it was just for a little while. I rode Spunk and Dad rode Dakota. Spunk is starting to slow down a little bit but she does pretty good for 20. Dakota is turning out to be a good horse and it was a lot of fun to ride around and listen to Dad's stories. Gabe and Raygen were in school and Ridge stayed home to take a "nap" with Grandma. He did more goofing then sleeping but I am very grateful to have my parents close by. I don't know what I would do without them. I couldn't help but think about Roo when I had this view. . .

Row Your Boat

2008-11-18T15:37:00.000-08:00

So my cute little sister's daughter knows all the words to "I Love To See The Temple". She has the sweetest video of Kadrian singing it on her blog. I was blown away when I saw her two year old body singing a whole primary song! This morning I noticed my handsome little boy singing a song of his own and thought I would share it. He learned it when we went to the corn maze. There was a group of girls next to us singing it at the top of their lungs and I didn't realize he had such a good memory! At least it is a classic. It is his very own version of Row, Row, Row your boat, only he says "ship" and "throw your teacher overboard and listen to her scream"
I know---I'm so proud.

Thomas

2008-11-17T13:58:00.000-08:00

I was talking to Beth Ann on the phone this morning while I was making Thomas the Turkey. She told me to post a picture of him on my blog in case she didn't get to my house before Thanksgiving. Here it is but that is not an excuse for us not to get together before then. I made this one for my house and one just like it for mom's house. I was a little worried that he wouldn't get to debut before the big day since it takes me forever to do anything. I don't know about the rest of you but I get about 200 times more done when the kids are in bed. (Of course by then I am usually too exhausted to start a project.) I guess I better get started on my Christmas stake soon. . .

What I'm Reading Tag---

2008-11-06T14:55:00.001-08:00

Well I was "tagged" for a blog game - these are the rules...
Rules:
1. Get the book that's on your nightstand (or whatever you happen to be reading).
2. Open it to page 56 and find the 5th sentence.
3. Post the next couple of sentences on your blog, along with these instructions.
4. Do not go and find your favorite book; it has to be the one you are reading now!
5. Tag five other people to do the same.

OK, this is kind of embarassing. I've read all the "grown-up" books in the house so I have to admit that I am now reading The Voyage of the Dawn Treader. It is part of The Chronicles of Narnia by C.S. Lewis. Here is the 56th page, 5th sentence, and a few more..."Caspian nodded to Bern and then stood aside. Bern and Drinian took a step forward and each seized one end of the table. They lifted it, and flung it on one side of the hall where it rolled over, scattering a cascade of letters, dossiers, ink-pots, pens, sealing-wax and documents. Then, not roughly but as firmly as if their hands were pincers of steel, they plucked Gumpas out of his chair and deposited him, facing it, about four feet away."
I tag Lacey, Brian, Jeanette, Mom, and Candice. . . .

Krazy Kids!

2008-11-04T17:00:00.001-08:00

Halloween was a lot of fun this year! The kids enjoyed our ward party that night and loaded up on candy. Raygen won second place in the 4H Halloween Carnival costume contest. The announcer called her Little Bo Peep but she was sure to correct him--she's Scarlett O'Hara. We even rented the movie to watch so she would know who that is. Now she walks around saying, "Fiddle-dee dee!" Gabe was Hercules and Ridge was a triceratops. He was suppose to be a chicken but after a lot of protest and a screaming deal on the costume, I finally gave in. I am glad I did too, because he refused to take any part of it off all night. He loves it and still always wants to wear it.
We had a lot of fun with pumpkins this year also. We made our annual trek to the Hobbs' Pumpkin Patch to make our pick. The kids each chose 2, one to carve and one to paint. The Passeys were able to come with us so it made it a true adventure and a ton of fun!
We also went to the Pumpkin Walk in North Logan for family night. It was neat but I could not believe how many people were there. Talk about insanity! (What did I expect on a Monday night in Utah?!)
All in all--I'd say Halloween was a success. Now if only the kids would come down off their sugar highs. . . .

Halloween Fun!

2008-11-04T16:38:00.000-08:00

Rare sighting!

2008-10-29T09:59:00.000-07:00

Tyson and Gabe were actually outside--playing basketball--together!! It was so amazing I had to document it. I was so glad to see the two of them enjoying each other's company and playing a sport that doesn't involved killing anything. Way to go guys!!

Cheer!

2008-10-29T09:22:00.001-07:00

On October 24th Raygen participated in the mini-cheer halftime show at Preston High School's football game. She practiced with the cheerleaders all week to learn a small cheer and dance. She had a lot of fun. Her little friend, Carly, did it with her so we took turns taking them. It was a little cold that night but she just smiled through the whole thing. It was really cute! Gabe said she was the best one, but they all did good. It tortured Tyson to sit through 1/2 of a football game (we left right after halftime) and Gabe complained too but decided it wasn't so bad. Ridge loved it! He wanted to get out on the field and play with them. I guess I will have to get a football out and teach him how to play. Heaven knows Tyson won't. ;0) It was fun to watch Ray and we are really proud of her! Sorry,I couldn't figure out how to flip the video.

Tag--I'm it!

2008-10-13T08:24:00.000-07:00

Ok, so it took me a while but Tracey tagged me so here it goes. . .

What's his name? Tyson Rex Murphy
How long have you been together? Our 10 year anniversary is in December and about a year before we got married
How old is he? 33
Who eats more? I eat more candy and way more vegetables but he has me beat on everything else!
Who said "I love you" first? I did. It has been a running joke ever since because it terrified him when I said it so his response was, "No you don't!"
Who is taller? He is
Who sings better? I think he does
Who is smarter? Oh me of course ;0)
Whose temper is worse? I'm not sure. I mean Tyson loses his way more often then I do, but my temper isn't the best when it goes off.
Who does the laundry? I do. Unless he is going hunting the next day and needs his hunting clothes washed in No Scent detergent and dried with sheets that smell like dirt. Then he does it.
Who does the dishes? Me. He has done them exactly 4 times since we've been married. (but who's counting?)
Who sleeps on the right side of the bed? He does.
Who pays the bills? We both do.
Who mows the lawn? I do because I like to. But he does when I can't get to it.
Who cooks dinner? Usually me. Tyson is actually a really good cook when he makes dinner
Who drives when you are together? Tyson does most of it unless he just drove 14 hours home from work, then I do.
Whose parents do you see the most? Mine. His moved to Montana and we don't get up there near enough.
Who kissed whom first? We were coerced by some friends
Who asked whom out? We were set up on a blind date
Who proposed? He did I guess--he sort of chickened out, it is a long story but I married him anyway
Who has more friends? He does. He can make friends with anyone, anywhere.
Who is more sensitive? We are about the same on that one just in different ways
Who has more siblings? I have 6, he doesn't have any
Who wears the pants in the family? I think he does but he thinks I do
Where did you meet each other? At his house in Bancroft, Idaho
What was the first thing you said to your husband? Um. . . .probably "Hi"
Where was your first date? The pizza place in Soda Springs (we argued the whole time)
Where was your first kiss? On the lips … oh, I mean at his house
Where did you get engaged? At the car races in Pocatello
Where were you married? In Afton, Wyoming
How was the honeymoon? Cold. Very, very cold.

I tag Candice, Jeanette, Braydon, Mom, and Brian.

Happy Birthday Raygen!!

2008-10-11T18:42:00.000-07:00

Today is Ray's 7th birthday. I can't believe it has already been seven years since her chubby, hairy little body exploded into this world! She told me the other day that next year she will get to be baptized and I about choked on the cinnamon bear I was eating. I told her she could do anything she wanted on her birthday (thinking she would want to go shopping or to the show or something like that) and she told me she just wanted to go fishing. Her Dad grinned from ear to ear. But wouldn't ya know it, of all the days to snow it had to snow today. So she invited a friend over and we all went to see Beverly Hills Chihuahua. I think Tyson has found his new favorite movie in the whole world. ;0) But the kids loved it. I decorated her door for her to wake up to this morning and had balloons and flowers on her spot at the table. Her reactions are always so cute to everything like that. She got a huge smile on her face and hugged me. Grandma Lynda came by and took her to the store to pick out "a present". She came home with so much stuff, she could hardly carry it. Her grandma sure does a good job of spoiling the crap out of her. Ridge got her a Sleeping Beauty DVD and Gabe got her flannel horse sheets for her bed. Her Dad and I gave her a Barbie stereo and a few other things. All in all, I think she had a good day. And can I just say one more time---I sure am glad she was born!!

Fat Lip!

2008-10-10T19:58:00.000-07:00

My poor daughter seems to have inherited my incredible grace and coordination. On her way to school this morning, she got off the bus, started to run for the school, and fell right on her face on the pavement. I have no idea why she didn't use her hands to break her fall. Tomorrow is her birthday and she will have a great fat lip and scratched up forehead for her pictures. Her Grandpa Benton and her Daddy couldn't contain their laughter when she tried to tell them the story of what happened. Not because it was funny but because she talks with a lisp now. She is my cute little darling girl and I will one day apologize to her for her bad genes. . .

Marbulous!

2008-09-22T10:39:00.000-07:00

With the kids at school and the rain pouring outside, Ridge and I decided to build a marble maze. I am proud to announce that I only taught Ridge one swear word while building the stupid thing! He loved it and was so excited to put marbles down it time and time again that it was well worth the time (forever!) it took to build it.

Driveway Chalk!

2008-09-22T08:08:00.001-07:00

Gabe got the sidewalk chalk out the other day. We had a lot of fun coloring the drive way all different colors. Raygen likes to draw hearts and flowers and Gabe was busy drawing butts--"monkey butts" to be exact. Ridge had fun just drawing on himself and they all chalked the poor cat. No wonder that cat hates us! It was a great activity for a while. And now today it is raining like crazy so I don't even have to worry about clean up! Can't beat that.

Memories. . .

2008-09-20T15:01:00.000-07:00

Ok so here is a fun game to see who and how many people read my blog.

1. As a comment on my blog, leave one memory that you and I had together. It doesn't matter if you knew me a little or a lot, anything you remember!
2. Next, re-post these instructions on your blog and see how many people leave a memory about you. It's actually pretty funny to see the responses. If you leave a memory about me, I'll assume you're playing the game and I'll come to your blog and leave one about you. If you don't want to play on your blog, or if you don't have a blog, I'll leave my memory of you in my comments.EVERYBODY PLAY! I want to see what memories are out there!

Another One Bites the Dust!

2008-09-17T11:16:00.001-07:00

Tyson filled another tag today when he arrowed this nice cow elk. I was very pleased. Now we will have meat in the freezer and I won't have another head hanging on the wall. It is a win/win situation for all. . . .except maybe the cow. Tyson went hunting this morning after a bull he had been seeing. He told himself that he would shoot anything that presented a good shot. So when this cow wandered in range, he let his arrow fly and hit her with a perfect shot. I am proud of him for sticking to his goal. Besides, now that we have a freezer full, I can concentrate on bringing home the BIG bull in October when my hunt starts. ;0) Ridge thought it is pretty cool. And yes, he is saying "Holy crap!" in the video. It is his new phrase and he says it ALL the time.

One Down More To Go!

2008-08-29T20:49:00.000-07:00

Congratulations to Tyson for starting this hunting season out with a . . . twang! He arrowed this nice antelope somewhere in Idaho. He and his sidekick, Squeaks, enjoyed a couple of days without kids, wife, or work to chase critters through the sage brush. He came home thrilled, exhausted, and very sunburned (he had to lay still on his stomach for 3 hours waiting for the perfect moment to attack). What can I say about a man so crazy---I mean "determined". I guess we will have plenty of antelope jerky for a while.

I, for one, am glad he came home with something. I was beginning to wonder if they were really hunting all that time or just enjoying being away from the wife, kids, and work. . .

It's All About Ridge!

2008-08-29T09:00:00.000-07:00

With the older kids off to school, Ridge find lots of mischief to get in. He is very entertaining and exhausting.

He likes to help himself to the garden. If you follow the trail of corn husks, you can eventually find him eating a raw ear of corn.

When he eats breakfast he has to have a bowl or plate for the toy he has picked to play with that morning. I tried to give his toy goat just cereal but he wanted it to have milk in it and a spoon too. It is cute but wastes food so hopefully it is just a short phase.

First Day of School!

2008-08-22T14:56:00.000-07:00

The kids survived their first day of school. Gabe wasn't very excited about going and Raygen couldn't wait. She gets to go all day now and even gets to eat in the cafeteria! It is Raygen's teacher's very first year teaching and Gabe's teacher has been teaching for 24 years. It will be interesting to see how this year goes. They both enjoyed their first and second day of school. They both really like their teachers. I am glad. Gabe's teacher told him that they will rarely have homework so he is VERY excited about that. And Raygen's teacher told them they will have homework almost every day so she is very excited about that. It is so strange how opposite they are. Maybe it is just the age. Ridge was very lonely without them. He followed me around the whole day. It was very quiet and relaxing and I am getting a lot done. (I finished a book I have been reading :0)) I am going to enjoy all the free time before preschool starts!

Rafting Racket

2008-08-20T11:25:00.000-07:00

The kids have decided that they love to raft! The little green raft from my childhood (aka Fish Hunter) has been resurrected this summer. I have spent many hours at Cottonwood Lake with friends and dates on this raft. It is very strange to watch my three kids paddle around in it. After a few instructions from Grandpa Benton, Gabe and Raygen went around and around the reservoir in it. Gabe thinks he is the captain and loves giving commands to his little sister. When she doesn't listen to him, a riot breaks out onboard. It is really hilarious to watch. It has been a good way to teach them to cooperate. When they argue, they just go around in circles but when they work together, they are able to get where they want to go. Ridge loves to ride in the raft too, but it is hard to keep him in it. He is always wanting to bail out to swim. They even talked Grandma Lynda into going for a ride with them! We have had a lot of fun and will spend our last day of summer vacation enjoying the water and the sun.

Thunder--

2008-08-14T20:59:00.000-07:00

We would like to welcome the newest member of the Murphy family. As if we didn't have enough critters running around already, now we have added a pygmy goat to the collection named Thunder. He is Gabe's reward for reaching his reading goals. Gabe wanted a rabbit, but his dad successfully talked him into getting a goat instead. He is only about 3 weeks old and we have to bottle feed him every few hours but I have to admit that he is pretty cute. We keep him in a dog kennel in the garage for right now and he gets lonely. He even lost his voice from crying all the time! He has been a lot of fun so far. I just worry about keeping the little thing healthy for Gabe. He cried for an hour after Thunder lost his voice because he was convinced he was going to die. As long as we keep him away from Ridge and the mean old cat, he should be just fine. . . I hope.

Reno Baby!!

2008-07-17T12:45:00.000-07:00

I had the priviledge to go spend a few days with the Klinglers in Reno. Lacey called me Saturday to tell me she was having the baby and I arrived about an hour after little Carson was born. It was so fun to get to see them all in the hospital. I got to watch the nurse give him his first bath through the nursery window. Kyle went and got Kadrian and brought her to the hospital to meet her cute little brother. Then I took Kadrian home and we watched a movie and went to bed. She and I got to spend a lot of time together the next few days. She is so much fun and such a hoot! She kept me laughing constantly! We went to the park, went shopping, went swimming, read books, played hide and go seek, and we even got to go play games at Circus Circus with my friend Amber. Kadrian won a little yellow duck and a stuffed bug. It was SO much fun! And I even got to hold Carson a few times. (When I could wrestle him away from his mother) He is such a sweet, cute little boy. It is amazing how much you can love someone you've only known for a few days.

While I was gone, the kids spent time with Daddy until he went to work, then they went to Grandpa Benton's. They had so much fun they didn't even miss me! When I got back all Gabe said to me was, "Wow, you haven't been gone very long!" I guess 5 days isn't long enough.

I am so glad Kyle and Lacey let me come and spend time with their cute family. I really enjoyed it!

Cousin Craze!

2008-07-17T12:35:00.000-07:00

We were able to spend a couple of days with Tyler last week. He and Gabe played and played and they even let Raygen and Ridge join in. Tyler found a salamander in our sprinkler box and named it Camo. He wanted to take it home with him to Texas but we didn't think the flight attendants would appreciate that too much. They had sleep overs, went on a horse ride, went swimming at Riverdale Resort, shot Gabe's air soft gun, made their own slushies, and chased the kittens all over creation. Gabe misses him already and can't wait to see him again!

Fourth of July!

2008-07-07T21:08:00.001-07:00

We had fun celebrating the fourth of July. We went to the fireworks in Logan with Bracken, Lindsey, Arianna, Grandpa Benton, and Brett. We watched them from Lundstrom park as has become the tradition. Ridge wandered away once and scared me to death but a nice lady was bringing him back to me but the time I went looking. He was crying and saying, "You left me at the park!" I hope the poor kid isn't traumatized. Then the next day we had a barbeque with Brittney, Branson, Brett, and his friend Sara. That night we lit off fireworks in Mom and Dad's driveway and I only burned myself once! As long as the kids got to do sparklers they could have cared less about the rest of it. It was a good day. I only wish that one of these years I will get to spend the 4th with Tyson. . . .now THAT would be fireworks!! heehee

Girl's Camp

2008-07-07T20:56:00.001-07:00

Well I have officially survived a week at girl's camp. We went to Aspen Ridge. It is a scout camp up Cub River. It was a lot of fun. The girl's had fun teaching me all sorts of games and I took them on a snipe hunt since I forgot my bear call. We went on a 5 mile hike, rode horses, shot archery and rifles, and stayed up really late each night playing games. It was a lot of work but a blast! I even won the award for best shot at the rifle range. Tyson is very proud. It is good to be home. I love camping but it is good to get home to indoor plumbing and air conditioning. Plus the mosquitoes bit the crap out of me. I used two whole cans of spray and it didn't even slow them down! The kids had fun playing with Aubree and Brianne at Grandpa Benton's house. They have been steadily coming down off of a huge sugar high ever since I got home. I am so blessed to live close to Mom and Dad! I don't know what I would do without them.

Construction woes!

2008-06-20T09:28:00.000-07:00

Wow will we be glad when this construction is done! Or at least moved down the street. For the last two days this has been the view from our drive way. Today we have no water, no phone, no sewer, and a huge ditch in the drive way so we have no way to leave. And they didn't even warn us! Both of our vehicles are trapped along with Grandma Lynda's van. She had to come pick us up for T-ball yesterday and I made the mistake of parking in the drive way. I was going to park across the street but they are digging over there also and they are diggin up and down both sides of my house. So my only other alternative would have been to park a street over and haul all three kids and their stuff home. Yesterday they warned us first, but not today! And what ticks me off the worst is that they are messing with the new valve Dad helped my put in yesterday. They will probably break that too. I guess I should feel lucky. They have only flooded our house once. My poor neighbors have been flooded three times! I guess this too will pass . . . .

Toddler Trouble!

2008-06-16T10:26:00.000-07:00

I've said it before and I'm sure I will say it many more times. . ."Never turn your back on a two year old!" It is amazing how fast a toddler can make a gigantic mess! He was pretending to be a dinosaur and got into my tub of butter. Then he tried to find me so there was this trail of little butter drops and butter hand prints throughout the whole house. It was one of those moments where you are torn between freaking out and laughing your head off. I chose to laugh and made him let me take pictures for his scrapbook. I've decided that messes clean up and babies don't stay little long enough. So instead of being a stress case, I am going to enjoy my last days of having a toddler. Even if it exhausts me!

Over the Hedge!

2008-06-11T20:00:00.000-07:00

It was another rainy day today so the kids had to entertain themselves somehow. We printed out some masks from the movie "Over the Hedge" and they pretended to be the characters. I didn't realize how much of the movie they have memorized! Scary. . .